Mummy’s boy, you are now a man.
Tomorrow you will have a new mother, a new cook and a new person to share all
your secrets with. It will no longer be me but her. Love your new mum even more
than you love me. Before you walk into her arms forever, let me give you some
words to guide you. There was a day I was arguing with your father. We were
screaming. Tempers were high. I was angry and He was angry.
Then I called him
an idiot! He was shocked. He looked at me asking how dare I call him that. I
immediately started calling him idiot, fool, stupid, crazy. I called him all
sort of name. Guess what he did? He didn’t raise his hands to hit me. He just
walked away, banging the door as he went out. My Son, If your father had hit me
and destroyed my eyes, how will you feel sitting here with me today? How will
you regard him as your father? Would you have been proud of him or would you be
blaming me for calling him names? Never hit your wife! No matter the
provocation just walk away and things will be normal.
Whenever she offends you,
think of this story I just told you, it could have been your mum! Before I
forget, after he left, I was filled with guilt. We slept on same bed that night
and I went to him the next day. I pleaded with him, I did all I could to show
am sorry and he forgave me. That day I cooked his favourite food, yes you know
he loves Affang soup right? After that day, I never called him names, my
respect for him was ten times stronger.
There is something very important you
must always do, my son listen very carefully, defend your wife. When she is
under pressure, stand by her. If your friends hates her, it is your duty to
make them see her as a Queen. Your Uncle, I mean Uncle Udeme never liked me.
But your father was always supportive until his perception changed. There was a
day your Father was going to host the owner of his company and friends.
They
were three of them. That day I was in the kitchen cooking for them and your
father went to buy drinks. When the table was set and food was served. Everyone
started eating. Then I remembered I did not add salt in the food. I was
embarrassed. Your father tasted the food and looked at me. He immediately
turned to the guests. He told them that he instructed his wife last month not
to add salt whenever she is cooking because of some problem with his body. He
said it in a funny way and everyone laughed!
The guests understood and he asked
me to bring salt and everyone added according to their taste. He managed to eat
the food without salt. After the guest left, he went on his knees and asked God
to forgive him for lying. Your wife is like a baby, sometimes she don’t know
what to say or do. Stand up and speak for her! Now let me talk to you about
sex. You see sex is a wonderful thing. Do not be surprised if your wife enjoy
and need sex more than you do. There were days, I needed sex more than your
father and there were days he needed it more than me but the important thing is
to always try to satisfy the other when they need you. Don’t always think of
your self There was a time things were hard and I needed to do two jobs to
support your father. One night I was so tired.
When I got to bed he was in the
mood. He try to make love to me and I didn’t refuse him. I was tired but I felt
I needed to be there when he need me. When he tried undressing me, he saw my
look and he stopped. He asked what was wrong and I said nothing. But he
understand me better. He stopped and then started telling me stories until I
fell asleep. My son, Sex is best enjoyed when the two parties are physically
and mentally ready for it. Sometimes, read your wife and understand her. Make
it a habit to go anywhere with your wife. Beside your job, move around with
her. If anyone invite you to his house and told you not to come with your wife
then be very careful. Use wisdom. I know you love mummy…
I know you tell me all
your problems. But now things will be different. Let your wife be the first to
know before me. Let her be the first to see before me. When you have problems
with her don’t run to me immediately. Wait for a day to pass and then talk to
her about it. Pray about it. Finally, don’t forget to come and visit you me
with your wife very month! I know you will have a happy home. You will always
be mummy’s boy.
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