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How To Do Friends With Benefits : Without Ruining Everything

 

An awesome friend you can also have great sex with, but with no strings attached? We all know that never works. Until it does.

In a survey of thousands of men and women by Phillip Petree, author of The Man Puzzle: A Guide to Understanding Men, men and women were fairly evenly split when it came to friends-with-benefits relationships. "When asked if either partner ended up getting their feelings hurt, 70% said yes, they had," Petree says. "When asked if the person with hurt feelings wanted more from the relationship, 91% said yes. When asked if the relationship had navigated to permanent, only 6% said it had. When asked why the relationship ended, it was because one person was insistent on making the relationship permanent and the other didn't want it beyond where it was.”

Unfortunately, many people don't follow the rules – yes, there are rules – and that’s where feelings get hurt and friendships end up destroyed. “Friends with benefits sounds in theory like the best of both worlds, but usually ends up causing unwanted drama and hurt feelings,” says Avi Kahan, co-founder of dating app InviteUp.

Although friends with benefits can work in the short term, it ultimately has an expiration date. “Either you transition to boyfriend or girlfriend or stop hooking up when one person feels emotionally unfulfilled. So the keys to successfully navigating a 'hookup' relationship are 1) Accepting that it's a short-term situation, and 2) Being honest with the other person and with yourself,” says Kahan.

Of course, there are certain guidelines you can follow to make this sort of relationship – and don’t for a second tell yourself it isn’t a relationship – as drama-free as possible. We spoke to the experts to find out exactly how you can do it right.

Be Clear About The Rules

The best way to do friends with benefits better is to lay down the rules and groundwork right in the beginning – that way, both people have a sense of what to expect from the situation, says Maria Akopyan, a life and relationship coach. It helps to discuss the fact that once one or both people start developing feelings, the friends with benefits fun is over, as well as the fact that both are free to date others without any jealousy on either part.

“The most successful friends with benefits situations are where both people have their own separate lives, come together casually only for fun sexual trysts and leave it at that. No dates, gifts, social media posts, or anything that might suggest there is more than friendship and casual sex,” says Akopyan. Communication is key so that both of you are always on the same page.

Make Sure That Page Hasn't Turned

Check in every so often to make sure the page hasn’t changed for either one of you. Because it happens. A lot. “In the heat of the moment we may be tempted to say the right thing or agree to something we are not completely happy with just to, well, not spoil the fun,” says Lora Ivanova, co-founder and chief marketing officer of myLAB Box, the first nationwide at-home STD testing service. “If your partner communicates a different expectation than yours, you have to be prepared to back off and seek your fun elsewhere,” says Ivanova. If they are secretly wanting more, there will be trouble down the line. “Entering into a casual relationship with misaligned expectations is a sure recipe for disaster,” says Ivanova.

Reciprocation Is A Must

This is a big one, possibly the biggest – your sex buddy does not exist to appear at your convenience for your pleasure. They are a human being with needs of their own – even if those needs are purely sexual in nature. Remember that it’s only friends with benefits if both are benefitting. “Reciprocate and take turns where you're going to meet up. Some people really tire of hearing 'Come to my place; I'm horny' every time [the other person] wants to have sex. Leave the option open, like, 'Hey, what are you doing tonight? My place or yours?'" says Bobbie Morgan, author of sex and relationship blog A Good Woman's Dirty Mind. And it doesn’t end there – make sure that both of you are having just as much fun in the sack. Just because it’s not a real “relationship” doesn’t mean one person’s sexual pleasure means more than the other's. Then, they're just steamrolling toward the obliteration of the friendship.

Be Honest About Boundaries

If you don't want to know about their other activities and dates, be upfront about it. “Let each other know if there is someone that is going to change the situation. This is not a permanent situation, so remember to not get too used to this person being around,” says Stef Safran, owner of Stef and the City, a matchmaking and dating expert in Chicago.

Keep It Fun

Keep romance out of the fun – but don't keep the fun out of the relationship. Sounds counter-intuitive, doesn't it? “This is one other common pitfall of casual daters. The issue with romance is it creates expectations. It also can confuse your partner and make them think you want or are developing deeper feelings," says Ivanova. "On the flip side, you cannot skip intimacy completely and move on to sex; this is no fun. Focus on pleasing your partner, doing things you both enjoy, making them feel good, but skip the grand gestures, elaborate dates and weekend getaways. Save those for if and when you are ready to explore a deeper connection.”

Also, try to avoid falling into routines. “Don't spend every Saturday night with someone or get too used to them being there at certain times,” says Safran. “You aren't going to meet someone if you don't try, so don't get into a situation where you can mistake this person for something they are not.”

Be Respectful

Even if this is just fun between friends, you are friends, and human beings with feelings and you should always consider your actions and their feelings. “Friends with benefits only works if the friend part stays at play. Casual relationship, like any relationship, requires a trust, empathy and communication,” says Ivanova. Oh, and condoms.

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11 Lies Single's Utters In The Bedroom

Welcome to the Golden Age of Getting Laid: it’s easier than ever to have sex, and everybody’s doing it. Alongside all the humping and grunting, one thing that everybody is also doing is dispensing lies like confetti. Even a harmless little phrase like "Netflix and chill" actually means something totally different.

The fact that we're all dirty little liars isn't something we should be ashamed of, though. Everybody knows that when you're having harmless sex with someone you met three hours ago, you're not necessarily projecting the most truthful version of yourself.

But in the spirit of flushing out bullsh*t from our lives, here are 11 mostly harmless lies that every millennial seems to say before, during, and after sex.

1. “I don’t usually do this.”

Who do you think you are? R. Kelly? You do this all the time and you like it, that’s why you’re doing it right now and will continue doing it in the future. Whether that “it” is involves something kinky with candle wax and food or that certain special position that can only be achieved by a step-stool, claiming ignorance with sex won’t get you anywhere.

2. "I’m not that kind of person.”

Come on. What are people so afraid of letting their freak flag fly? There’s nothing wrong with being the kind of person who sleeps with someone on the first date or the kind of person who doesn’t mind a little backdoor action.

3. "I won’t tell anyone!”

What’s the first thing you’re going to do after you finish with a mind-blowing sexual encounter in which your whole body got rocked up and down like the bridge of the Titanic? Tell your friends, put up a cryptic Facebook status, and maybe even do a little subtle somethin’ somethin’ on Instagram. Commendable behaviour? No. Do we do it anyway. Oh yes.

4. "You’re the best I’ve ever had.”

The best I’ve ever had since the last best time I ever had and until the next best I’ll ever have.

5. "I’ll call you.”

No, you won’t – if anything, you’ll text them. Which leads us to...

5a. "I’ll text you.”

No, you won’t. You’re not going to get a text from a member of the generation that invented the act of “ghosting.” At most, you’ll get an Instagram like a few months after the initial hook up and then maybe a stray emoji a year or two later.

6. "I came.”

Sorry, buddy, but you probably did not give her an orgasm – at least, not on your first try. But wasn't it nice of her to say?

7. "My roommates won’t mind”

If you hook up with someone with roommates, which you probably will and probably have, it takes a huge luck of the draw to end up with a girl whose roomie is cool with hearing her housemate explicitly knocking boots with some random dude she met on Tinder. Speaking of which...

8. "I hate Tinder.”

For those 50 million people on Tinder, swiping literally 1 billion times per day, blaming Tinder for the source of their anxiety is a commonly heard complaint. However, numbers don’t lie – so, ask yourself: Do you really hate Tinder or do you hate striking out of Tinder?

9. "I’m not sleeping with anyone else.”

Unless you’re in a full-fledged relationship with someone else, it’s hard to believe you’re putting the ancient belief of “going steady” into practice with someone you only swiped right with two days ago. Half the fun of random sex with multiple partners is the “multiple partners” aspect. 

10. "I always keep things tidy.”

Ha! One of the biggest misconceptions about men and women is that women are the only ones who like to tidy up down there when down there is expecting company. Guys do it too, but we certainly don’t spend an hour shaving and spritzing every single week. An HD picture of any guy’s trash on an off-month will spell a far different stories than the garbage coming out of his mouth.

11. "That was so good.”

Yeesh, the caveat to this house of deceit. We’ve all heard the “sex is like pizza” argument – what people don’t talk about is the difference between how we talk about good sex and bad sex. When the pizza is bad, you tell the chef... when the sex is bad, you lie about it and then avoid the person like a disgraced pizza chef who got the anchovies all wrong.

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The Best Men's Fashion Gifts For Xmas

Gifts:

Christmas is a funny time of year when it comes to style. Men waiver from end-of-year black tie events to corny festive jumpers, sometimes within hours of each other. But when it comes to our stockings, we prefer to find simple and stylish items of menswear wrapped up that will see us through until spring. With that in mind, here's our own sartorial wishlist.

River Island Tartan Scarf

Irresistible autumn colours mixed with the armour required for increasingly wintry temperatures make this woven scar a gift that will keep on giving. Until around April, unfortunately.
- £15, River Island

Whistles Merino Sweater

For Christmas, you can’t go wrong with everyday essentials done exceptionally well. Whistles source upmarket Italian wool for their merino sweater, ensuring it feels as soft on your arm as a freshly skinned reindeer pelt. Too soon?
- £85, Whistles

Jigsaw Wool Cotton Pique Polo

In these liberated days when it's not just acceptable, but actually stylish to pair dress-down knitwear with a formal jacket, a warm polo shirt is one of the most versatile items in your wardrobe. Warm, too.
- £69, Jigsaw

John Lewis Cotton Savile Row Floral PJs

Not everyone can enjoy the comfort and fine tailoring of a Savile Row suit, but by God we can all swan around the kitchen pouring out our cornflakes in these gloriously sartorial cotton pyjamas. Roomy but still stylishly cut to give a Roger Moore-esque swagger over breakfast, you’ll want to leave them on for the turkey dinner.
- £35, John Lewis

Gosling Driving Gloves

Driving gloves. Called Gosling. You don't get three guesses to work out where Reiss found the name for these pure leather gloves but you can't deny how good they look. The details are what make them, especially those perforated fingers. Whether you want to style them with a bomber jacket featuring a massive Scorpion on the back is entirely up to you.
- £70, Reiss

Next Long Sleeve Oxford Shirt

Ideal for the pernickity sod you don't know what to buy for, a button-down Oxford slips easily into any man's wardrobe. An essential item of menswear at a stocking-filler price.
- £20, Next

Oliver Sweeney Aldeburgh Brogue

The wingtip brogue is a wardrobe staple for any self-respecting gent, so stand out from the sartorial set with these navy options from Oliver Sweeney. Built to last with a Goodyear welting technique that makes them sturdy, they’re also less likely to spring a leak on rainy days.
- £195, Oliver Sweeney

M&S Dip Dye Jumper

Dip dye-style jumpers – "ochre" if you speak Fashion Blogger – is a popular trend for autumn-winter this year. Even if there is a slight chance the blended colours will get a bit trippy after your fifth brandy on Boxing Day.
£55, Marks and Spencer

Dunhill Albany Single Document Case

Anyone bold enough to put this on his Christmas has to be pretty sure his better half has deep pockets and even deeper affections. But having said that, we can think of few better ways to display said affection. Dunhill's exquisite briefcase is made from fine Italian calfskin with a lock and zip closure. It's about the only kind of bag for life we want to be seen with.
- £990, Dunhill

Topman LTD Premium Duck Down Parka

Stuffed with real duck feathers and coated with a water-repellent finish, Topman’s parka is all the armour you need to take on winter. It’s also a style that everyone from Liam Gallagher to Kanye West has mastered. Plus, of course, Kenny from South Park.
- £125, Topman  

Hardy Amies

Statement accessories don’t start with your shoes and end with a jaunty hat. This luxurious passport holder from Hardy Amies has embossed leather and a plush interior, surely ramping up your chances of an upgrade at the check-in desk.
£75, Hardy Amies

Uniqlo Star Wars Graphic T-Shirt

For its latest pop culture range, Uniqlo is having fun with all things Star Wars. There are some outstanding wookie-themed items in the range but this X-wing print tee is going on our wishlist. Who’s scruffy-looking now?
£12.90, Uniqlo

Levi’s 501 CT

This year the world’s most iconic jeans got a wee facelift when, in response to customer demand, Levi’s introduced the 501 CT. The classic fit with a tapered leg, they’re more versatile than ever.
£80, Levi’s

Clarks Padley Alp GTX

Waterproof footwear is a regrettable necessity on this damp island of ours. Which is probably all the reasoning Clarks and Gore-Tex teamed up on these hiker-style boots, which are smart enough for the high street and technical enough for muddy countryside rambles.
£120, Clarks

H&M Suit Joggers

If smart-casual was a headache before, this either complicates matters further or massively simplifies them: suit joggers. Do we fully get it? No. Do we want them anyway? Yes. Wider trouser legs and a hidden drawstring might even make the commute comfortable.
£39.99, H&M

Bridge Closure Bag

After opening its first men’s store this year, the Cambridge Satchel Company has continued to seduce, broadening its range of premium leather bags. We’d stuff our lunch and laptop in this one any day.

£185, Cambridge Satchel Company

Miansai Bracelet

Men have to be subtle with jewellery (we’re still blaming Mr T). A leather bracelet with a silver-plated fastener like this one strikes a nice balance: eye-catching without being ostentatious.
£75, Miansai at Mr Porter

Oliver Spencer Ambleside Low-Top Trainer

Everything we want from our trainers can be found right here: comfort, from the suede interior; durability, thanks to the leather; and versatility, with the off-white colour working across the spectrum from smart to casual.
£169, Oliver Spencer

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Here's How To Rewire Your Brain For Positivity After A Break-up

As humans, we’re genetically engineered to be negative. This dates back aeons to times when our prehistoric ancestors had to keep their head on a swivel to see if there was some type of massive predator lurking in the bushes. Anything that was brought into your field of view was first analysed for threats. Or, in the words of Mac from It's Always Sunny in Philadelphia, given the full “ocular patdown.”

 

Fast forward many thousands of years and this negativity bias remains. The lens that you view the world through is meant to analyse potential threats. In doing so, it clouds your mind with more negativity. This is amplified even more so when it comes to getting over a breakup. The sky-is-falling, world-is-ending, doomsday-type thoughts take over and everything in your world is negative.

Sucks, right? The good news is that you can absolutely change the way that your brain works and processes information to a more positive inclination. Through repetition, you can rework your neurons to fire in new ways. Here are a few habits to get you started in that direction…

Embracing Positive Moments

We live in a society that constantly urges us to avoid the present moment. Advertisements vie for our attention. Smartphones bling with notifications begging to be checked. Thoughts of past and future run rampant. The cliché of “stopping to smell the roses” is far under utilised in modern culture. But it’s necessary.

Think back to moments in your life where you were at your peak happiness. For me, I remember being at my family cabin in Canada, floating through the lake on poorly constructed raft that I made in middle school. Coming to the surface of the Atlantic during a night dive in Key Largo and seeing an array of amazing stars. Sitting in the bay off the coast of Thailand having Chiang beers with my new longboat-taxi-driver friend who barely spoke any English.

I remember these positive moments vividly, because I force myself to embrace them fully. Next time you find yourself in a fantastic moment, take time to feel every one of your senses. What do you smell, see, taste, feel? Embrace the moment. The more that you do this, the more the chemicals and neuro framework in your brain will begin to perceive and process any new event from a more positive perspective. This will change your life.

Embodying A Life Of Gratitude

It doesn’t just have to be the special moments that you cherish. Every day occurrences and blessings must be kept top of mind. I keep a journal in Evernote where every day I write down things I am grateful for. The Miami ocean breeze. My parents’ generosity. The roof over my head.

Take the time to understand how amazing you have things in life. Say your girlfriend broke up with you. You know what? You still have things in life to be thankful for. Remind yourself of those every day; these are the rituals that will keep you happy. Your mind will stop viewing what you don’t have and focus on the positive elements of what you do.

Surround Yourself With Positive People

You are a function of the five people that you spend the most time with in life. Check your phone right now. Who are the top five people that you call and text with the most? How do they impact your life? Is it positive? Are they uplifting and motivating or do they ride on you and bring negative energy into your life.

Banish toxic “friends” from your life. Existence is too short to be confined to people that don’t empower and help you grow. Odds are that your ex was bringing you down in a lot of ways. So, reach back out to people who have had a positive influence on your life. Spend time with them doing enriching activities that challenge you in new ways. Your mentality, mood, and motivation will all skyrocket in positive ways.

When you break it down, reality is just an illusion comprised of your perception of the world. If your view is clouded with a lens of negativity, you are on a slippery slope that will lead to depression and an unfulfilling life. However, if you bathe in gratitude, appreciation and positivity, your reality will become a positive blessing.

Think to yourself that life is happening for you, not to you. Everything that happens is an amazing opportunity. Rewire your mind in accordance with this positivity and you will reach an enlightened state of self-love and that will emanate amazing energy. This will naturally attract amazing new women to you that can take your life to an entirely new level.

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Check What Beyonce: Nicki Minaj: Rihanna: Is Up To

While every man appreciates a beautiful woman, a pretty face can only get you so far. Thankfully, these women are the complete package: talented, entertaining and running the music world.

Who's The Sexiest?

Beyonce:

Beyoncé Giselle Knowles-Carter is an American singer-songwriter, and actress. Born and raised in Houston, Texas, she performed in various singing and dancing competitions as a child, and rose to fame ...
Born: September 4, 1981

Nicki Minaj:

 

Onika Tanya Maraj, professionally known by her stage name Nicki Minaj, is a Trinidadian-born American rapper and songwriter.

Born: December 8, 1982 (age 33)

Rihanna:

Robyn Rihanna Fenty, is a Barbadian singer and songwriter. Born in Saint Michael, Barbados, her career began upon meeting record producer Evan Rogers in late 2003 through mutual friends; she recorded demo tapes with his guidance.

Age 27.
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Another Clara The Sugar Mummy in Need of Handsome Sugar Boy – Apply Now

My name is Clara, I am 28 years old and I need a young,
handsome guy from any part of Nigeria. I will take care of all your needs as far as you can satisfy me inside room. I will be glad if you can hook me up with a strong Guy.

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Shelley Is In Abuja Now

 

Yea! I have being hooking with 3ghookup for so long, just that i based in London but due to some problems and other things i fill like relocating to Abuja.

I came back yesterday night and since then am filling lonely.  

Am Shelley Maria by name. Like i said am from London, just moved to Abuja recently. I enjoy movies, wine and great conversations. I also love sports. I'm not one of those band wagon fans at all. I am now taking time to find someone I can spend my time with and get to know.

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